Although the article states that extra-marital sex among vets is "twice the rate among ever-married non-veterans," I would say that it's frankly remarkable that number isn't higher, given the kind of stress and pressure so many vets must live under when deployed. I think one's concept of boundaries, of what's important and acceptable, may change a bit when one is repeatedly threatened with the loss of life. Interestingly however, the authors state that many in the study would have come from "low conflict" eras, which sorta shoots a big ol hole in my theory, but it doesn't know this for sure, so there you go.
But let's not also forget that in many cases, we're talking about younger men and women here who are serving. I'm not suggesting here that they are any less likely to obey the tenets of their marriage than anyone else, but to think that, far from home, loved ones and the comfort of one's spouse for months on end, the body doesn't yearn for physical contact is just plain naive.
In the end, it's hard to use this study for anything more than a plea to fund another, more relevant and timely study. But even if this was approved, I think each war brings with it different circumstances, and those variables would wreak havoc with any control one might try to initiate in the study. For example, the OEF/OIF conflicts have been fought in large part by National Guard troops. Are they older? Do they have stressors not normally associated with regular army life? Does the fact that they aren't normally involved in conflicts play any role?
Extramarital Sex and Divorce More Common Among Veterans
ScienceDaily (Aug. 22, 2011)
— Veterans were significantly more likely to have ever engaged in
extramarital sex and ever gotten divorced than people who were never in
the military, according to new research to be presented at the 106th
Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Association.
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"To the extent that the patterns observed in these data hold for our current veteran population, the results of this study provide evidence that the concerns about infidelity among spouses of persons who have served in the military are to a considerable degree valid," said Andrew S. London, chair of the sociology department and a sociology professor at Syracuse University. "However, even though the reported rates of infidelity were significantly higher for veterans than non-veterans, extramarital sex was only reported by one-third of ever-married veteran respondents."
Titled, "Veteran Status, Marital Infidelity, and Divorce," the study also found that among those who had ever married, veterans were almost 10 percent more likely to have gotten divorced (38.5 percent compared to 28.9 percent). There was also a strong association between extramarital sex and divorce both for veterans and non-veterans. Overall, even after taking into account veteran status and other factors that influence divorce, those who reported extramarital sex were 2.3 times more likely to have ever divorced than those who reported no extramarital sex.
While the study considered both men and women, London and his co-authors Elizabeth Allen, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Colorado-Denver, and Janet M. Wilmoth, a sociology professor at Syracuse University, said their data set included too few female veterans to draw definitive conclusions about them as a separate group.
"The results of this study provide robust evidence that veteran status was strongly associated with an increased likelihood of extramarital sex and divorce -- at least among men -- and suggest that the odds of extramarital sex and divorce might also be elevated among female veterans," London said. "But, further research that uses larger, representative samples of female veterans is needed to confirm those female-specific associations."
The study relied on data from the 1992 National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS), and focused on the 2,308 18-60-year-old respondents who comprised the ever-married subset of the sample. "Although it is now two decades old, the NHSLS is one of the few national data sets that includes questions about whether respondents have ever served in the military, extramarital sex, and marital and divorce history," London said.
As valuable as the NHSLS data are, London and his co-authors believe that their findings raise important new questions that can only be addressed with new data collection. "We do not know from these data whether the extramarital sex occurred prior to, during, or after the conclusion of the respondent's military service, and we do not know the military service status of spouses," London said. "New, relatively large-scale data collection initiatives that follow people over time, examine different stages of life, and collect state-of-the-science measurements of military service experiences, sexual behavior, and marriage and family outcomes from husbands and wives are desperately needed."
In terms of the study's policy implications, London said, "This research can increase our understanding of some of the problems faced by military and veteran families, and can inform the development of interventions used to help them."
For ease of presentation, the authors used the term "veteran" to describe people who had previously served in the military or who were on active duty at the time of the survey. A very small number (26) of ever-married persons were on active-duty at the time of the survey. Although the authors do not have information about the specific time period of military service, they note that the age distribution in the NHSLS suggests that respondents were born between 1932 and 1974, and therefore turned 18 between 1950 and 1992. Thus, veterans (primarily men) in the NHSLS would have been eligible to serve during the Korean War, the Cold War era, the Vietnam War, and the era of the All-Volunteer Force (AVF). It is likely that the majority served during relatively low-conflict eras; only some of the older veterans could have served during the Korean and Vietnam Wars, and a few of the younger veterans could have served during the first Gulf War. Based on when respondents turned 18, the authors estimate that approximately 78 percent of the ever-married veterans in the NHSLS served prior to the era of the AVF, which began in 1973.
